Claiming your Own
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IN a recent conversation, I was telling a woman
to pluck up courage and to reach out for a certain good thing for which she had
been longing for many years, and which, at last, appeared to be in sight. I
told her that it looked as if her desire was about to be gratified - that the
Law of Attraction was bringing it to her. She lacked faith, and kept on
repeating, “Oh! It’s too good to be true - it’s too good for me! She had
not emerged from the worm-of-the-dust stage, and although she was in sight of
the Promised Land she refused to enter it because it “was too good for
her.” l think I succeeded in putting sufficient “ginger” into her to enable her
to claim her own, for the last reports indicate that she is taking possession.
But that is not what I wish to tell you. I want
to call your attention to the fact that nothing is too good for YOU - no matter
how great the thing may be - no matter how undeserving you may seem to be. You
are entitled to the best there is, for it is your direct inheritance. So don’t
be afraid to ask - demand - and take. The good things of the world are not the
portion of any favored sons. They belong to all, but they come only to those
who are wise enough to recognize that the good things are theirs by right, and
who are sufficiently courageous to reach out for them. Many good things are
lost for want of the asking. Many splendid things are lost to you because of
your feeling that you are unworthy of them. Many great things are lost to you
because you lack the confidence and courage to demand and take possession of
them.
“None but the brave deserves the fair,” says
the old adage, and the rule is true in all lines of human effort. If you keep
on repeating that you are unworthy of the good thing - that it is too good for
you - the Law will be apt to take you at your word and believe what you say.
That’s a peculiar thing about the Law - it believes - what you say - it takes
you in earnest. So beware what you say to it, for it will be apt to give
credence. Say to it that you are worthy of the best there is, and that there is
nothing too good for you, and you will be likely to have the Law take you in
earnest, and say, “I guess he is right; I’m going to give him the whole bakeshop
if he wants it - he knows his rights, and what’s the use of trying to deny it
to him?” But if you say, “Oh, it’s too good for me! The Law will
probably say, “Well, I wouldn’t wonder but that that is so. Surely he ought to
know, and it isn’t for me to contradict him.” And so it goes.
Why should anything be too good for you? Did
you ever stop to think just what you are? You are a manifestation of the Whole
Thing, and have a perfect right to all there is. Or, if you prefer it this way,
you are a child of the Infinite, and are heir to it all. You are telling the
truth in either statement, or both. At any rate, no matter for what you ask,
you are merely demanding your own. And the more in earnest you are about
demanding it - the more confident you are of receiving it - the more will you
use in reaching out for it - the surer you will be to obtain it.
Strong desire - confident expectation - courage
in action - these things bring to you your own. But before you put these forces
into effect, you must awaken to a realization that you are merely asking for
your own, and not for something to which you have no right or claim. So long as
there exists in your mind the last sneaking bit of doubt as to your right to
the things you want, you will be setting up a resistance to the operation of
the Law. You may demand as vigorously as you please, but you will lack the
courage to act, if you have a lingering doubt of your right to the thing you
want. If you persist in regarding the desired thing as if it belonged to
another, instead of to yourself, you will be placing yourself in the position
of the covetous or envious man, or even in the position of a tempted thief. In
such a case your mind will revolt at proceeding with the work, for it
instinctively will recoil from the idea of taking what is not your own - the
mind is honest. But when your realize that the best the Universe holds belongs
to you as a Divine Heir, and that there is enough for all without your robbing
anyone else; then the friction is removed, and the barrier broken down, and the
Law proceeds to do its work.
I do not believe in this “humble” business.
This meek and lowly attitude does not appeal to me - there is no sense in it,
at all. The idea of making a virtue of such things, when Man is the heir of the
Universe, and is entitled to whatever he needs for his growth, happiness and
satisfaction! I do not mean that one should assume a blustering and
domineering attitude of mind - that is also absurd, for true strength does not
so exhibit itself. The blusterer is a self-confessed weakling - he blusters to
disguise his weakness. The truly strong man is calm, self-contained, and
carries with him a consciousness of strength which renders unnecessary the
bluster and fuss of assumed strength. But get away from this hypnotism of “humility”
- this “meek and lowly” attitude of mind. Remember the horrible example of
Uriah Heep, and beware of imitating him. Throw back you head, and look the
world square in the face. There’s nothing to be afraid of - the world is apt to
be as much afraid of you, as yell are of it, anyway. Be a man, or woman, and
not a crawling thing. And this applies to your mental attitude, as well as to
your outward demeanor. Stop this crawling in your mind. See yourself as
standing erect and facing life without fear, and you will gradually grow into
your ideal.
There is nothing that is too good for you - not
a thing. The best there is, is not beginning to be good enough for you; for
there are still better things ahead. The best gift that the world has to offer
is a mere bauble compared to the great things in the Cosmos that await your
coming of age. So don’t be afraid to reach out for these playthings of life -
these baubles of this plane of consciousness. Reach out for them - grab a whole
fistful - play with them until you are tired; that’s what they are made for,
anyway. They are made for our express use - not to look at, but to be played
with, if you desire. Help yourself - there’s a whole shopful of these toys
awaiting your desire, demand and taking. Don’t be bashful! Don’t let me hear
any more of this silly talk about things being too good for you. Pshaw! You
have been like the Emperor’s little son thinking that the tin soldiers and toy
drum were far too good for him, and refusing to reach out for them. But you
don’t find this trouble with children as a rule. They instinctively recognize
that nothing is too good for them. They want all that is in sight to play with,
and they seem to feel that the things are theirs by right. And that is the
condition of mind that we seekers after the Divine Adventure must cultivate.
Unless we become as little children we cannot enter the Kingdom of Heaven.
The things we see around us are the playthings
of the Kindergarten of God, playthings which we use in our game-tasks. Help
yourself to them - ask for them without bashfulness demand as many as you can
make use of - they are yours. And if you don’t see just what you want, ask for
it - there’s a big reserve stock on the shelves, and in the closets. Play,
play, play, to your heart’s content. Learn to weave mats - to build houses with
the blocks - to stitch outlines on the squares -play the game through, and play
it well. And demand all the proper materials for the play - don’t be bashful -
there’s enough to go round.
But - remember this! While all this be true,
the best things are still only game-things - toys, blocks, mats, cubes, and all
the rest. Useful, most useful for the learning of the lessons - pleasant, most
pleasant with which to play - and desirable, most desirable, for these
purposes. Get all the fun and profit out of the use of things that is possible.
Throw yourself heartily into the game, and play it out - it is Good. But,
here’s the thing to remember - never lose sight of the fact that these good
things are but playthings - part of the game - and you must be perfectly
willing to lay them aside when the time comes to pass into the next class, and
not cry and mourn because you must leave your playthings behind you. Do not
allow yourself to become unduly attached to them - they are for your use and
pleasure, but are not a part of you - not essential to your happiness in the
next stage. Despise them not because of their lack of Reality - they are great
things relatively, and you may as well have all the fun out of them that you
can - don’t be a spiritual prig, standing aside and refusing to join in the
game. But do not tie yourself to them - they are good to use and play with, but
not good enough to use you and to make you a plaything. Don’t let the toys turn
the tables on you.
This is the difference between the master of
Circumstances and the Slave of Circumstances. The Slave thinks that these
playthings are real, and that he is not good enough to have them. He gets only
a few toys, because he is afraid to ask for more, and he misses most of the
fun. And then, considering the toys to be real, and not realizing that there
are plenty more where these came from, he attaches himself to the little
trinkets that have come his way, and allows himself to be made a slave of them.
He is afraid that they may be taken away from him and he is afraid to toddle
across the floor and help himself to the others. The Master knows that all are
his for the asking. He demands that which he needs from day to day, and does
not worry about over-loading himself; for he knows that there are “lots more,”
and that he cannot be cheated out of them. He plays, and plays well, and has a
good time in the play - and he learns his Kindergarten lessons in the playing.
But he does not become too much attached to his toys. He is willing to fling
away the worn-out toys, and reach out for a new one. And when he is called into
the next room for promotion, he drops on the floor the worn-out toys of the
day, and with glistening eyes and confident attitude of mind, marches into the
next room - into the Great Unknown - with a smile on his face. He is not
afraid, for he hears the voice of the Teacher, and knows that she is there
waiting for him - in that Great Next Room.
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