The Attractive Power - Desire Force
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WE have discussed the necessity of getting rid
of fear, that your desire may have full strength with which to work. Supposing
that you have mastered this part of the task, or at least started on the road
to mastery, I will now call your attention to another important branch of the
subject. I allude to the subject of mental leaks. No, I don’t mean the leakage
arising from your failure to keep your own secrets -that is also important, but
forms another story. The leakage I am now referring to is that occasioned by
the habit of having the attention attracted to and distracted by every passing
fancy.
In order to attain a thing it is necessary that
the mind should fall in love with it, and be conscious of its existence, almost
to the exclusion of everything else. You must get in love with the thing you
wish to attain, just as much as you would if you were to meet the girl or man
you wished to marry. I do not mean that you should become a monomaniac upon the
subject, and should lose all interest in everything else in the world - that
won’t do, for the mind must have recreation and change. But, I do mean that you
must be so “set” upon the desired thing that all else will seem of secondary
importance. A man in love may be pleasant to everyone else, and may go through
the duties and pleasures of life with good spirit, but underneath it all he is
humming to himself “Just One Girl;” and every one of his actions is bent toward
getting that girl, and making a comfortable home for her. Do you see what I
mean? You must get in love with the thing you want, and you must get in love
with it in earnest - none of this latter-day flirting, “on-today and off-tomorrow”
sort of love, but the good old-fashioned kind, that used to make it impossible
for a young man to get to sleep unless he took a walk around his best girl’s
house, just to be sure it was still there. That’s the real kind!
And the man or woman in search of success must
make of that desired thing his ruling passion - he must keep his mind on the
main chance. Success is jealous -that’s why we speak of her as feminine. She
demands a man’s whole affection, and if he begins flirting with other fair charmers,
she soon turns her back upon him. If a man allows his strong interest in the
main chance to be sidetracked, he will be the loser. Mental Force operates best
when it is concentrated. You must give to the desired thing your best and most
earnest thought. Just as the man who is thoroughly in love will think out plans
and schemes whereby he may please the fair one, so will the man who is in love
with his work or business give it his best thought, and the result will be that
a hundred and one plans will come into his
field of consciousness, many of which are very
important. The mind works on the subconscious plane, remember, and almost
always along the lines of the ruling passion or desire. It will fix up things,
and patch together plans and schemes, and when you need them the most it will
pop them into your consciousness, and you will feel like hurrahing, just as if
you had received some valuable aid from outside.
But if you scatter your thought-force, the
subconscious mind will not know just how to please you, and the result is that
you are apt to be put off from this source of aid and assistance. Beside this,
you will miss the powerful result of concentrated thought in the conscious
working out of the details of your plans. And then again the man whose mind is
full of a dozen interests fails to exert the attracting power that is
manifested by the man of the one ruling passion, and he fails to draw to him
persons, things, and results that will aid in the working out of his plans, and
will also fail to place himself in the current of attraction whereby he is
brought into contact with those who will be glad to help him because of harmonious
interests.
I have noticed, in my own affairs, that when I
would allow myself to be sidetracked by anything outside of my regular line of
work, it would be only a short time before my receipts dropped off, and my
business showed signs of a lack of vitality. Now, many may say that this was
because I left undone some things that I would have done if my mind had been
centered on the business. This is true; but I have noticed like results in
cases where there was nothing to be done - cases in which the seed was
sown, and the crop was awaited. And in just such cases, as soon as I directed
my thought to the matter the seed began to sprout. I do not man that I had to
send out great mental waves with the idea of affecting people - not a bit of
it. I simply began to realize what a good thing I had, and how much people
wanted it, and how glad they would be to know of it and all that sort of thing,
and lo! My thought seemed to vitalize the work, and the seed began to sprout.
This is no mere fancy, for I have experienced it on several occasions; I have
spoken to many others on the subject, and I find that our experiences tally
perfectly. So don’t get into the habit of permitting these mental leaks. Keep
your Desire fresh and active, and let it get in its work without interference
from conflicting desires. Keep in love with the thing you wish to attain - feed
your fancy with it - see it as accomplished already, but don’t lose your
interest. Keep your eye on the main chance, and keep your one ruling
passion strong and vigorous. Don’t be a mental polygamist - one mental love is
all that a man needs - that is, one at a time.
Some scientists have claimed that something
that might as well be called “Love” is at the bottom of the whole of life. They
claim that the love of the plant for water causes it to send forth its roots
until the loved thing is found. They say that the
love of the flower for the sun causes it to
grow away from the dark places, so that it may receive the light. The so-called
“chemical affinities” are really a form of love. And Desire is a manifestation
of this Universal Life Love. So I am not using a mere figure of speech when I
tell you that you must love the thing you wish to attain. Nothing but intense
love will enable you to surmount the many obstacles placed in your path.
Nothing but that love will enable you to bear the burdens of the task. The more
Desire you have for a thing, the more you Love it; and the more you Love it,
the greater will be the attractive force exerted toward its attainment - both
within yourself, and outside of you.
So love but one thing at a time - don’t be a
mental Mormon.
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