Training the Habit-Mind
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PROFESSOR William James, the well-known teacher
of, and writer upon Psychology very truly says: “The great thing in all
education is to make our nervous system our ally instead of our enemy. For
this we must make automatic and habitual, as early as possible, as many useful
actions as we can and as carefully guard against growing into ways that are
likely to be disadvantageous. In the acquisition of a new habit, or the
leaving off of an old one we must take care to launch ourselves with as strong
and decided initiative as possible. Never suffer an exception to occur until
the new habit is securely rooted in your life. Seize the very first possible
opportunity to act on every resolution you make and on every emotional
prompting you may experience, in the direction of the habits you aspire to
gain.”
This advice is along the lines familiar to all
students of Mental Science, but it states the matter more plainly than the
majority of us have done. It impresses upon us the importance of passing on to
the subconscious mind the proper impulses, so that they will become automatic
and “second nature.” Our subconscious mentality is a great storehouse for all
sorts of suggestions from ourselves and others and, as it is the “habit-mind,”
we must be careful to send it the proper material from which it may make
habits. If we get into the habit of doing certain things, we may be sure that
the subconscious mentality will make it easier for us to do just the same thing
over and over again, easier each time, until finally we are firmly bound with
the ropes and chains of the habit, and find it more or less difficult,
sometimes almost impossible, to free ourselves from the hateful thing.
We should cultivate good habits against the
hour of need. The time will come when we will be required to put forth our best
efforts, and it rests with us today whether that hour of need shall find us
doing the proper thing automatically and almost without thought, or struggling
to do it bound down and hindered with the chains of things opposed to that
which we desire at that moment.
We must be on guard at all times to prevent the
forming of undesirable habits. There may be no special harm in doing a certain
thing today, or perhaps again tomorrow, but there may be much harm in setting
up the habit of of doing that particular thing. If you are confronted
with the question: “Which of these two things should I do?” the best answer is:
“I will do that which I would like to become a habit with me.”
In forming a new habit, or in breaking an old
one, we should throw ourselves into the task with as much enthusiasm as
possible, in order to gain the most ground before the energy expends itself
when it meets with friction from the opposing habits already formed. We should
start in by making as strong an impression as possible upon the subconscious
mentality. Then we should be constantly on guard against temptations to break
the new resolution “just this once.” This “just once” idea kills off more good
resolutions than any other one cause. The moment you yield “just this once, you
introduce the thin edge of the wedge that will, in the end, split your
resolution into pieces.
Equally important is the fact that each time
you resist temptation the stronger does your resolution become. Act upon your
resolution as early and as often as possible, as with every manifestation of
thought in action, the stronger does it become. You are adding to the strength
of your original resolution every time you back it up with action.
The mind has been likened to a piece of paper
that has been folded. Ever afterwards it has a tendency to fold in the same
crease - unless we make a new crease or fold, when it will follow the last
lines. And the creases are habits - every time we make one it is so much easier
for the mind to fold along the same crease afterward. Let us make our mental
creases in the right direction.
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