The Transmutation of Negative Thought
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WORRY is the child of Fear - if you kill out
Fear, Worry will die for want of nourishment. This advice is very old, and yet
it is always worthy of repetition, for it is a lesson of which we are greatly
in need. Some people think that if we kill out Fear and Worry we will never be
able to accomplish anything. I have read editorials in the great journals in
which the writers held that without Worry one can never accomplish any of the
great tasks of life, because Worry is necessary to stimulate interest and work.
This is nonsense, no matter who utters it. Worry never helped one to accomplish
anything; on the contrary, it stands in the way of accomplishment and
attainment.
The motive underlying action and “doing things”
is Desire and Interest. If one earnestly desires a thing, he naturally becomes
very much interested in its accomplishment, and is quick to seize upon anything
likely to help him to gain the thing he wants. More than that, his mind starts
up a work on the subconscious plane that brings into the field of consciousness
many ideas of value and importance. Desire and Interest are the causes that
result in success. Worry is not Desire. It is true that if one’s surroundings
and environments become intolerable, he is driven in desperation to some
efforts that will result in throwing off the undesirable conditions and in the
acquiring of those more in harmony with his desire. But this is only another
form of Desire - the man desires something different from what he has; and when
his desire becomes strong enough his entire interest is given to the task, he
makes a mighty effort, and the change is accomplished. But it wasn’t Worry that
caused the effort. Worry could content itself with wringing its hands and
moaning, “Woe is me,” and wearing its nerves to a frazzle, and accomplishing
nothing. Desire acts differently. It grows stronger as the man’s conditions
become intolerable, and finally when he feels the hurt so strongly that he
can’t stand it any longer, he says, “I won’t stand this any longer - l will
make a change,” and lo! Then Desire springs into action. The man keeps on
“wanting” a change the worst way (which is the best way) and his Interest and
Attention being given to the task of deliverance, he begins to make things
move. Worry never accomplished anything. Worry is negative and death
producing. Desire and Ambition are positive and life producing. A man may worry
himself to death and yet nothing will be accomplished, but let that man
transmute his worry and discontent into Desire and Interest, coupled with a
belief that he is able to make the change - the “I Can and I Will” idea - then
something happens.
Yes, Fear and Worry must go before we can do
much. One must proceed to cast out these negative intruders, and replace them
with Confidence and Hope. Transmute Worry into keen Desire. Then you will find
that Interest is awakened, and you will begin to think things of interest to
you. Thoughts will come to you from the great reserve stock in your mind and
you will start to manifest them in action. Moreover you will be placing
yourself in harmony with similar thoughts of others, and will draw to you aid
and assistance from the great volume of thought waves with which the world is
filled. One draws to himself thought waves corresponding in character with the
nature of the prevailing thoughts in his won mind - his mental attitude. Then
again he begins to set into motion the great Law of Attraction, whereby he
draws to him others likely to help him, and is, in turn, attracted to others
who can aid him. This Law of Attraction is no joke, no metaphysical absurdity,
but is a great live working principle of Nature, as anyone may learn by
experimenting and observing.
To succeed in anything you must want it very
much - Desire must be in evidence in order to attract. The man of weak desires
attracts very little to himself. The stronger the Desire the greater the force
set into motion. You must want a thing hard enough before you can get it. You
must want it more than you do the things around you, and you must be prepared
to pay the price for it. The price is the throwing overboard of certain lesser
desires that stand in the way of the accomplishment of the greater one.
Comfort, ease, leisure, amusements, and many other things may have to go (not
always, though). It all depends on what you want. As a rule, the greater the
thing desired, the greater the price to be paid for it. Nature believes in
adequate compensation. But if you really Desire a thing in earnest, you will
pay the price without question; for the Desire will dwarf the importance of the
other things.
You say that you want a thing very much, and
are doing everything possible toward its attainment? Pshaw! You are only
playing Desire. Do you want the thing as much as a prisoner wants freedom - as
much as a dying man wants life? Look at the almost miraculous things
accomplished by prisoners desiring freedom. Look how they work through steel
plates and stonewalls with a bit of stone. Is your desire as strong as that?
Do you work for the desired thing as if your life depended upon it? Nonsense!
You don’t know what Desire is. I tell you if a man wants a thing as much as the
prisoner wants freedom, or as much as a strongly vital man wants life, then
that man will be able to sweep away obstacles and impediments apparently
immovable. The key to attainment is Desire, Confidence, and Will. This key will
open many doors.
Fear paralyzes Desire - it scares the life out
of it. You must get rid of Fear. There have been times in my life when Fear
would get hold of me and take a good, firm
grip on my vitals, and I would lose all hope;
all interest; all ambition; all desire. But, thank the Lord, I have always
managed to throw off the grip of the monster and face my difficulty like a man;
and lo! Things would seem to be straightened out for me somehow. Either the
difficulty would melt away or I would be given means to overcome, or get around,
or under or over it. It is strange how this works. No matter how great is the
difficulty, when we finally face it with courage and confidence in ourselves,
we seem to pull through somehow, and then we begin to wonder what we were
scared about. This is not a mere fancy, it is the working of a mighty law,
which we do not as yet fully understand, but which we may prove at any time.
People often ask: “it’s all very well for you
New Thought people to say ‘Don’t worry,’ but what’s a person to do when he thinks
of all the possible things ahead of him, which might upset him and his plans?
Well, all that I can say is that the man is foolish to bother about thinking of
troubles to come at some time in the future. The majority of things that we
worry about don’t come to pass at all; a large proportion of the others come in
a milder form than we had anticipated, and there are always other things which
come at the same time which help us to overcome the trouble. The future holds
in store for us not only difficulties to be overcome, but also agents to help
us in overcoming the difficulties. Things adjust themselves. We are prepared
for any trouble which may come upon us, and when the time comes we somehow find
ourselves able to meet it. God not only tempers the wind to the shorn lamb, but
He also tempers the shorn lamb to the wind. The winds and the shearing do not
come together; there is usually enough time for the lamb to get seasoned, and
then he generally grows new wool before the cold blast comes.
It has been well said that nine-tenths of the
worries are over things which never comes to pass, and that the other tenth is
over things of little or no account. So what’s the use in using up all your
reserve force in fretting over future troubles, if this be so? Better wait
until your troubles really come before you worry. You will find that by this
storing up of energy you will be able to meet about any sort of trouble that
comes your way.
What is it that uses up all the energy in the
average man or woman, anyway? Is it the real overcoming of difficulties, or the
worrying about impending troubles? It’s always “Tomorrow, tomorrow,” and yet
tomorrow never comes just as we feared it would. Tomorrow is all right; it
carries in its grip good things as well as troubles. Bless my soul, when I sit
down and think over the things which I once feared might possibly descend upon
me, I laugh! Where are those feared things now? I don’t know - have almost
forgotten that I ever feared them.
You do not need fight Worry - that isn’t
the way to overcome the habit. Just practice concentration, and then learn to
concentrate upon something right before you, and you will find that the worry
thought has vanished. The mind can think of but one thing at a time, and if you
concentrate upon a bright thing, the other thing will fade away. There are
better ways of overcoming objectionable thoughts than by fighting them. Learn
to concentrate upon thoughts of an opposite character, and you will have solved
the problem.
When the mind is full of worry thoughts, it
cannot find time to work out plans to benefit you. But when you have
concentrated upon bright, helpful thoughts, you will discover that it will
start to work subconsciously; and when the time comes you will find all sorts
of plans and methods by which you will be able to meet the demands upon you.
Keep your mental attitude right, and all things will be added unto you. There’s
no sense in worrying; nothing has ever been gained by it, and nothing ever will
be. Bright, cheerful and happy thoughts attract bright, cheerful and happy
things to us - worry drives them away. Cultivate the right mental attitude.
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