The Secret of the Will
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WHILE psychologists may differ in their
theories regarding the nature of the Will, none deny its existence, nor
question its power. All persons recognize the power of strong Will - all see
how it may be used to overcome the greatest obstacles. But few realize that the
Will may be developed and strengthened by intelligent practice. They feel that
they could accomplish wonders if they had a strong Will, but instead of
attempting to develop it, they content themselves with vain regrets. They sigh,
but do nothing.
Those who have investigated the subject closely
know that Will Power, with all its latent possibilities and mighty powers, may
be developed, disciplined, controlled and directed, just as may be any other of
Nature’s forces. It does not matter what theory you may entertain about the
nature of the Will, you will obtain the results if you practice intelligently.
Personally, I have a somewhat odd theory about
the Will. I believe that every man has, potentially, a strong Will, and that
all he has to do is to train his mind to make use of it. I think that in the
higher regions of the mind of every man is a great store of Will Power awaiting
his use. The Will current is running along the psychic wires, and all that it
is necessary to do is to raise the mental trolley-pole and bring down the power
for your use. And the supply is unlimited, for your little storage battery is
connected with the great powerhouse of the Universal Will Power, and the power
is inexhaustible. Your Will does not need training - but your Mind does. The mind
is the instrument and the supply of Will Power is proportionate to the
fineness of the instrument through which it manifests. But you needn’t accept
this theory if you don’t like it. This lesson will fit your theory as well as
mine.
He who has developed his mind so that it will
allow the Will Power to manifest through it, has opened up wonderful
possibilities for himself. Not only has he found a great power at his command,
but he is able to bring into play, and use, faculties, talents and abilities of
whose existence he has not dreamed. This secret of the Will is the magic key
which opens all doors.
The late Donald G. Mitchell once wrote:
“Resolve is what makes a man manifest; not puny resolve, but crude
determination; not errant purpose - but that strong and indefatigable will
which treads down difficulties and danger, as a boy treads
down the heaving frost-lands of winter; which
kindles his eye and brain with a proud pulse-beat toward the unattainable. Will
makes men giants.”
Many of us feel that if we would but exert our
Will, we might accomplish wonders. But somehow we do not seem to want to take
the trouble - at any rate; we do not get to the actual willing point. We put it
off from time to time, and talk vaguely of “some day,” but that some day never
comes.
We instinctively feel the power of the Will,
but we haven’t enough energy to exercise it, and so drift along with the tide,
unless perhaps some friendly difficulty arises, some helpful obstacle appears
in our path, or some kindly pain stirs us into action, in either of which cases
we are compelled to assert our Will and thus begin to accomplish something.
The trouble with us is that we do not want to
do the thing enough to make us exert our Will Power. We don’t want to hard
enough. We are mentally lazy and of weak Desire. If you do not like the
word Desire substitute for it the word “Aspiration.” (Some people call the
lower impulses Desires, and the higher, Aspirations - it’s all a matter of
words, take you choice.) That is the trouble. Let a man be in danger of losing
his life - let a woman be in danger of losing a great love - and you will
witness a startling exhibition of Will Power from an unexpected source. Let a
woman’s child be threatened with danger, and she will manifest a degree of Courage
and Will that sweeps all before it. And yet the same woman will quail before a
domineering husband, and will lack the Will to perform a simple task. A boy
will do all sorts of work if he but considers it play, and yet he can scarcely
force himself to cut a little firewood. Strong Will follows strong Desire. If
you really want to do a thing very much, you can usually develop the Will Power
to accomplish it.
The trouble is that you have not really wanted
to do these things, and yet you blame your Will. You say that you do want to do
it, but if you stop to think you will see that you really want to do something
else more than the thing in question. You are not willing to pay the price of
attainment. Stop a moment and analyze this statement and apply it in your own
case,
You are mentally lazy - that’s the trouble.
Don’t talk to me about not having enough Will. You have a great storehouse of
Will awaiting your use, but you are too lazy to use it. Now, if you are really
in earnest about this matter, get to work and first find out what you really
want to do - then start to work and do it. Never mind about the Will
Power - you’ll find a full supply of that whenever you need it. The thing to do
is to get to the point where you will resolve to do. That the real test
- the resolving. Think of these things a little, and make up your mind whether
or not you really want to be a Willer sufficiently hard to get to work.
Many excellent essays and books have been
written on this subject, all of which agree regarding the greatness of Will
Power, the most enthusiastic terms being used; but few have anything to say
about how this power may be acquired by those who have it not, or who possess
it in but a limited degree. Some have given exercises designed to “strengthen”
the Will, which exercises really strengthen the Mind so that it is able to draw
upon its store of power. But they have generally overlooked the fact that in
autosuggestion is to be found the secret of the development of the mind so
that it may become the efficient instrument of the Will.
AUTOSUGGESTION I AM Using My
Will Power
Say these words several times earnestly and
positively, immediately after finishing this article. Then repeat them
frequently during the day, at least once an hour, and particularly when you
meet something that calls for the exercise of Will Power. Also repeat them
several times after you retire and settle yourself for sleep. Now, there is
nothing in the words unless you back them up with the thought. In fact, the
thought is “the whole thing,” and the words only pegs upon which to hang the
thought. So think of what you are saying, and mean what you say. You must use
Faith at the start, and use the words with a confident expectation of the
result. Hold the steady thought that you are drawing on your storehouse of Will
Power, and before long you will find that thought is taking form in action, and
that your Will Power is manifesting itself. You will feel an influx of strength
with each repetition of the words. You will find yourself overcoming difficulties
and bad habits, and will be surprised at how things are being smoothed out for
you.
EXERCISE
Perform at least one disagreeable task each day
during the month.. If there is any especially disagreeable task which you would
like to shirk, that is the one for you to perform. This is not given to you in
order to make you self-sacrificing or meek, or anything of that sort - it is
given you to exercise your Will. Anyone can do a pleasant thing cheerfully, but
it takes Will to do the unpleasant thing cheerfully; and that is how you must
do the work. It will prove a most valuable discipline to you. Try it for a
month and you will see where “it comes in.” If you shirk this exercise you had
better stop right here and acknowledge that you do not want Will Power, and are
content to stay where you are and remain a weakling.
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