CHAPTER XIII HOW TO STUDY
VERY person who possesses this book should become
related to it in one of two ways:
1.
Either as a reader.
2.
Or as a student.
Only the latter will accomplish the full results
of the work. There are
three things to do :
1.
To study.
2.
To think.
3.
To execute.
There can be such a thing as reading that is
deep and student-like; but a casual reader, who absorbs nothing, is the most
superficial of all persons. Whoever reads the fewest booksis apt to be the best thinker. A rapid reader
cannot be a student.
A casual reading of this book will produce in
the pupil no results whatever. It will be time wasted; but perhaps well wasted.
The author prefers that no person should have
the custody of this book, excepting the owner, or excepting the person who is
to use it. A book of study should have but one owner.
Lending and borrowing are relics of barbarism,
and twin brothers of poverty and bad business methods.
Polonius, in Hamlet, says:
"Neither a borrower nor a lender be; For
loan oft loses both itself and friend, And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry."
But a
stronger reason prevails in the present instance.
The
purchaser of this book, or whoever studies it, should at
once
procure some strong but thin writing paper, and paste
leaves
between all the pages of this volume, in the chapters on
On these blank leaves he
should keep a record of his practice and the time when
it is first undertaken, the
amount of time each day, and the progress made.
Annotations of all kinds pertaining to the study and practice will be found
beneficial and of great value to the student.
The high character of the results to be
attained necessitates constant companionship of book and user, which is
impossible if two friends or two members of the same family are using the same
copy; and is just as inconvenient as one plate would be to two hungry people
eating out of it.
The mark of a true student is in note-making.
People who absorb the most, observe the most; and the noteworthy facts are
preserved. This has been true of every successful man and woman who has ever
lived; and a thousand instances might be cited of those who preserved in the
form of notes every occurrence that had value.
You meet people every day. They meet you or
others. You know what they say, and from that you judge of their motives and
their attempts to influence you or others. Not a single day will pass without
one or more illustrations of the power of magnetism being exerted, even in some
slight degree. The really magnetic people you will not meet, for their ability
has carried them to a higher plane of success, and they come across your path
but seldom.
The preparatory lesson is a simple one; but, if
you pursue its plan faithfully, you will agree that it is a most important
one. It consists in becoming a conscious observer of every transaction between
yourself and others, or between other parties in their efforts to gain
advantages. Let your mind be awake to the fact that, however trivial the occurrence,
one person will in some slight way control the other.
Your observations must be conscious; that is,
you must Bay mentally, "I am watching this affair to see who appears
to have the superiority." If you are involved,
you may take
it for granted that, as
long as you are conscious of
watching
results, you will never be taken advantage
of. But this consciousness
must relate entirely to the question of who has the
superior influence.
The following facts are preparatory principles,
and embodyin part a review of
what has already been said.
1.
The human body is a collection of individual energies.
2.
These energies are adrift.
3.
Life is an expression of drifting energies.
4.
Drifting life involves a vast waste of energy.
5.
Nature, left to drift, overflows with energy. This is seen in buds,
blossoms and fruits, and in all impregnation, as well as in a thousand other
facts of life.
6.
Concentration collects and holds the energies of the body for some
specific use; and here magnetism begins.
7. There is no limit to the power of the nerves, when
directed by the will.
A human being is capable of anything.
8.
The muscles are but agents of the nerves.
9.
The nerves are agents of the concentrated energies of the body.
Having generalized to this extent, we will
proceed to the discussion of these laws as crystallized in the form of
principles. In this
way everything will be better understood.
Forthe present we must be getting ready for the technical training which
appears in the latter pages of this volume;
yet the steps taken in
getting ready are progressive and pro-deductive of results.
TWENTY-FIRST GRAND PRINCIPLE
Mental electricity is
generated by conscious attention.
If you allow horses to roam at will in the
pasture their
energies are
wasted, and their future
usefulness will be
abridged. If you use the muscles of the body with indifference, they will
possess neither strength nor trained value
in any department of action. If you permit the brain to
wander
about and roam at will over fields of interest, its
power of
concentration will be lost, and weakness follows all
lack of
concentration.
Loose
reading takes
away this ability. The knocking about of the mind in daily flights to
sensations found in the papers, or the feeding of the most depraved of all
mental tastes, curiosity, by pursuing items of special news, or the stimulating
of the emotions by exciting novels, as well as the general habit of inattention
seen in usual conversations, are quick destroyers of the highest form of vital
electricity or personal magnetism. In man the mind is the engineer and the
pilot. It must retain its place and its control over the vast enginery of the
body, or the great craft will drift to disaster.
Conscious attention is of the highest possible
value as a means of generating this best of all forms of power. It does not do
all the work, nor a tenth of it, but it performs a necessary part in the
development of the coveted energy. Magnetic persons are well known, and they
show this faculty of fixing the whole mind upon what is transpiring. If you address
such a person he gathers all his attention like so many parts of a splendid
machine and lays them before you in detail. If you appeal to his sympathy it is
yours; the appeal is not met by mind-wandering, drifting of the thoughts or a
halfhearted response. If you Seek information, it is ready if it can be supplied;
and, if not, then such guidance as is possible will be tendered to you.
Magnetic persons never listen by halves. With
them it is all attention or none. They show full deference, or they are
unapproachable. As the art of control is chiefly the art of winning, they give
no offense, yet are not sycophants. These distinctions are important A poor
listener is almost always disliked. You know when you must struggle to hold the
attention. The cat-and-dog life of some so-called friends, and of some married couples,
is generally accompanied by
this constant endeavor to be understood, as in
the following illustration:
Husband. What did you say?
Wife. I spoke distinctly.
I told you that the next day they left town and never came back. See?
H. Yes.
W. What?
H. Of course I see.
They came back to town. I heard it all.
W. They never came
back. You sit there looking at the ceiling, thinking of everything but what I
am saying.
H. I tell you I heard
you.
Another case is typical of the fashionable
woman who looks you full in the face and doesn't think of anything. We will
call her Mrs. B.
Mrs. A. As I was saying, the
first part of the exercises continued rather too long, and we got wearied.
Mrs. B. Indeed.
Mrs. A. And we did not wish
to do anything to show that we were wearied, so we remained. You understand ?
Mrs. B. What? Yes. Perfectly.
Mrs. A. And we were well
repaid. The most delightful time followed. We gathered much information which
we would have regretted the loss of, if we had not remained. I presumed you are
interested in the life of R------and the influence he has upon the world of
to-day. You
understand?
Mrs. B. Yes, indeed. Why,
of course. Who was it you mentioned? How beautiful it must all be.
And the woman was ogling an imaginary vacuity miles
and miles beyond the opposite wall.
Such persons are not only devoid of all
magnetism, but are tiresome bores. To talk to a poor listener is bad enough,
but to have an upturned face and empty head poised just in front of you is much
more exasperating.
The power of mental concentration is acquired
by steady practice. It is hard work at first, but it pays. The best of all
methods is to fix the attention upon the mind and ideas of
each individual who addresses you, and not
allow your interest to flag a second. Even if worthless thoughts are expressed,
the exercise and training are of the utmost value to you. Listening to sermons
is one of the severest and yet one of the best means of learning to fix the
attention.
TWENTY-SECOND GRAND PRINCIPLE Animal electricity
serves only the brute creation.
As we have hinted in earlier pages, the power
to lure Other life to its death is undoubtedly bestowed by nature as a means of
self-preservation. A balance is maintained by affording to each species the
weapons of defense, but only against common attacks. The electric fish that
charges the water with a shock which is too much for the approaching enemy,
employs an instantaneous tensing action that creates the power out of the
general life of the fish. The claim that it is stored away in a battery is not
borne out by facts. Yet the electric fish is not always immune, for it would so
multiply as to drive all others out of the ocean.
Then the ink fish, that makes the water cloudy,
is likewise following a law of self-protection. The smaller fish are able to
retire to nooks that cannot be reached by the larger species; yet when they
venture into greater expanses of water they stand more than an equal chance of
floating down the throats of their pursuers. The birds of the air are equipped
with various means of defense. Animals that live upon the earth protect
themselves in peculiarly different ways. The horse has nothing but his heels
with which to combat a foe; he may kick or run. Horned animals are armed at the
opposite end. Then others are given teeth and tusks. The elephant has his
trunk and his powerful tread. The bear hugs to kill, or breaks his opponent's
back by a blow of his paw. The poisonous reptiles and insects depend upon a
fatal compound that is dreaded so much as to ostracize the creatures; they
are let alone. The porcupine shoots barbed quills that eat their way intothe vitals of their victims. The polecatdefends himself by a rank odor that is a disgrace to his kind. Moles
hide so cleverly that they are rarely caught. Bats and owls are protected by
the night's darkness. Treetoads are of the color of the tree; and many species
of lower life are given colors exactly like their surroundings.
Against this unending variety of self-defense
we have the power of animal magnetism to lure them to their death. We cannot
take the time at this place to discuss the many ways in which the power is
exercised. It is commonly illustrated in the familiar habits of reptiles,
birds, felines and others of stilling the resistance of their prey until they
can be caught. The charm of the snake is sometimes thrown over a human being. A
child has been fascinated more than once by a venomous reptile. The boa is able
to put the lamb to sleep and thus approach it. A woman was once caught by the
brilliant eye of a huge anaconda and held powerless until overcome. In other
instances the speed and fury of the enemy are evidences of the irresistible
force of animal magnetism, and in all cases this power is given by nature to
take away from the victims all sensibility to pain. Suffering is entirely
removed. Death is
delightful in the jaws of brutes.
TWENTY-THIRD GRAND PRINCIPLE Mental
electricity serves only the human species.
It becomes necessary to draw the line between
the will or determination of brute life, and the will or determination of the
mind. A physical purpose is often carried into execution through animal
magnetism. The power to hypnotize, to put into a sleep or a dazed wakefulness,
is part of animal magnetism.
No human being, dealing with another human
being,
has a right under normal conditions to deprive
the other of
the use of his faculties. To use animal magnetism is
wrong.
The victim is never so bright afterward. If the law of life
compelled us to kill and devour him it would be
a mercy to
hypnotize
him, especially if we were to commence to eat him alive. But such law belongs to the brute realm.
Imagine a man in love with a woman who
was slow to give her consent to marriage, trying
to win that consent from her by the act of hypnotism. What has he gained? A dead thing.
Certainly
not her consent. He
might as well use a club to deaden her opposition as to put her into a
cataleptic sleep. All
this is animal magnetism, and belongs to brutes for brute purposes. Man possesses the faculty
because he is an aggregate collection of vegetation, brute and human.
On the one hand the consent is given negatively
by destroying the conscious mind. On the other hand, personal magnetism
awakens the whole being, stimulates the heart, wins the good opinion, betters
every faculty and makes the woman a more desirable companion. A hypnotized
subject is a temporary corpse, even to coldness and rigidity. A magnetized
person is not a subject, but a peer for the time being. Humiliation and shame
give way to exaltation and pride. The man who loves a woman and who wishes her
full consent, must not make her his slave, but his idol. To raise her in her
own esteem, to surround her life with his own appreciation, to excite into
being the charms that rest so grandly upon her nature and pay homage to
them—this is magnetism. She feels her better self to have sprung into recent
existence and finds it inextricably involved in his life. It is the heart-throb
of the child for the parent, and of the parent for the child.
Sex influences are interchangeable, and the man
who can exalt woman by his own magnetism has won her. There is no escape.
Likewise the woman who can exalt man has won him. When the child is cowed by
the nervous energy of the parent, it is animal magnetism; when it is brought
into a state of obedience by methods that exalt its little and beautiful
nature, that is magnetism. More of this power is needed in home life. The sexes
are opposite poles. They are best held together by magnetism, as is explained
in the larger volume, known as Man and Woman, or Sex Magnetism. Magnetism
is of two poles, and sex energy runs in the same divergence,
each
seeking
the other pole while maintaining opposing natures. The study is exceedingly
valuable as well as interesting.
Mental magnetism is an all-powerful tool of
one's personality. It never harms another. It always helps both persons
involved. It does the mind good. We have compared it with animal magnetism in
order that the difference might be apparent. The latter joins well with the
former so long as the mind is in control, for all the vitalities are means of
additional strength to this one supreme power.
At this point it may be well to again remind
you of the general purpose of the study of magnetism which is:
1. To emancipate people from
the slavery of the influence of others.
2. To teach each member how to
take advantage of every opportunity in life.
When these two objects are attained by any
person, the character of the individual is completely altered.
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