IN THE SECOND STEP - THE ENEMIES OF PERSONAL MAGNETISM. CHAPTER VI - VIGILANCE THE PRICE OF POWER
ALL FACULTIES have enemies. The faculty of song
has many enemies that are constantly at work destroying its best quality. All
the gifts and accomplishments of life are beset with influences that tend to
weaken their effective powers; and the man or woman alone is great who can
watch over them with jealous care. Gladstone maintained his public position
many years longer than he otherwise would by reason of the fact that his wife
studied his habits and criticized his methods with unceasing zeal. We cannot
see ourselves as we are, nor as others see us; and it is an advantage to have
the guidance of one who is sincerely interested in our success.
DEFINITIONS
Owing to the fact that we will make use of
terms from time to time that have special application in this study, we present
herewith a list of definitions for the guidance of our readers:
1.
Cultivation of Personal Magnetism. A series of Exercises and
Regulations whereby the nerves are made subject
to the will, and are then super-charged with
magnetic power.
2. Negative Exercises. That portion of the exercises
set apart for the special purpose of removing nervous defects and tendencies.
3.
Positive Exercises.
That portion of the exercises
Bet apart for the special purpose of
super-charging the nervous system with magnetism.
4.
Regime. The
daily conduct of the pupil.
5.
Internal Energy. A certain power within, which is able to direct
the magnetic forces outward.
6.
External Energy. The mere muscular action of the body, which,
when not acting in unison with Internal Energy, wastes the nerve-force.
7. Nerve-Force. An electro-magnetic influence of a vibrating
character, generated by the principle of life, and usually wasted at the
surface of the body, but capable of traveling great distances and controlling
any form of life which can hear, see or feel; and more especially the human
race. When so used it is popularly called Personal Magnetism.
8.
Nervousness. The action of the vital-force moving without
command from the will, or contrary to the will.
9.
Nervous Prostration. The exhaustion of the vital-force, or
an inability to generate a sufficient amount to supply the waste. It is well to
distinguish between this malady and nervousness. The former is, of course, the
outgrowth of the latter. While the nerve-force is in good supply, but
erratic in its action, it is called nervousness. In persons suffering
from prostration there is generally no erratic action, as the vitality is too
weak.
This exhaustion robs the blood circulation of
its tone or health.
It weakens the bones by making them like the
bones of dead people.
It weakens the stomach.
It destroys the tone of the cuticle and skin by
the deadening of weak fibres.
It weakens the hearing by causing part of the
sounds to be obscured.
It weakens the sight and causes films or small
specs to move in front of the eyes.
It weakens the mind and often leads to insanity
by the
exhaustionof the nerve-force.
Nervous prostration and the tendency to it may
be cured by the exercises of this book.
Medicine never yet. cured or
prevented a case of nervous prostration.
Persons who do not care to cultivate magnetism
may simply devote themselves to the "Negative Exercises" in the
lessons to follow, and they will thereby obtain benefits to the nervous system
that can be procured in no other way.
10.
Voluntary Muscles. Those that may be moved in obedience to the
will.
11.
Involuntary Muscles. Those over which the will has little or no
control, moving in obedience to the laws of life. Their action being directed
by nature no loss of nerve-force occurs.
12.
Straight Lines. Imaginary lines in the air through which the extremes
of the body pass in making movements.
13.
Extremes. Any part of the body from which, by shaking, water
could be thrown, as the fingers, elbows, head, feet, knees and others.
14.
Angles. Sharp
turns made in any movement
15.
Circles. Imaginary
rings made in any movement.
16.
Curves. Parts
of circles.
17.
Leakage. The out-flow of nerve-force from any one or more
of the extremes of the body. This outflow is caused by constant small
motions which are unperceived by the person making them, but which in a few
hours will throw off great quantities of vitality into the air, which, if
retained, would have been converted into magnetism. Leakage always
occurs without Internal Energy. The latter power is capable of being
developed so as to supply an unlimited quantity of nerve-force.
18.
Leaker. A person whose waste vitality has not been checked by
training. Everybody who does not pass through the Negative Exercises of this
book is a leaker.
FOUNDATION LAW All men and women possess
personal magnetism.
This foundation law must be kept in mind all
through these lessons.
We will endeavor to explain it. Life is due to
magnetism, and there can be no life where there is no magnetism. Like heat it
may pass to such a degree of weakness as to be regarded as a negative
condition; but, like heat, it exists even in its apparent absence. We think of
the day as warm when the thermometer reaches the eighties, and as hot when it
rises to ninety or a hundred. We regard it as cold when the temperature is
fifty, or forty, and as freezing cold at thirty-two or under. Yet the freezing
point is hot and even burning to a kind of life that thrives at zero. As cold
is only diminished heat, it must be true that fifty below zero is hot in
comparison to a condition that is one hundred below zero. Science has never yet
found the state of total absence of heat.
Magnetism is the first manifestation of life in
a plant of animal organism. It is magnetism that brings one cell to another
cell and frames the form of the future body. It is magnetism that allows all
things that belong to the earth to remain in close affinity with the earth,
Were there no gravity, all the people and all the objects on the globe would
wander off aimlessly in space. Gravity cannot be satisfactorily explained
except on the principle of magnetism. If it were not for this force of
attraction, all the planets would rush into a state of chaos under the mere
impulse of gravity, or would drift away into the cold realms of space in its
absence. We see two kinds of magnetism at work in the solar system; one that
chains the orbs to the sun's influence, and one that whips them away from each
other while leashed within that influence. The star systems of the sky seem to
be independent of our own corner of the universe; but it is safe to say that
they all obey one and the same governing power, and their march through the
limitless fields of ether is controlled by a central magnetic force.
When the sun shines on plastic life, it begins at once to
exert a magnetic influence on all it touches. Only the other
day a neighbor who had planted a row of flowering-peas, complained
that they did not cling to the wire
netting that stretched
along in front of them.
We brought him into our garden and
showed him a row more than a hundred feet in length where
the peas were clinging to a similar mesh of wire, and their
tendrils were closely entwined in the wires, thus holding up
the abundance of many-hued flowers. He could not understand
it. But we had placed the wire netting on the south
side of the row of vines, and he had placed his on the north
side. The sun is always on the south, and never crosses to
the north except when it is low in the east or the west. Its
intense influence is always from a southerly direction. Its
influence draws all growth towards it, and therefore the
vines would reach their tendrils to the south rather than to
the north. In
one case they would reach towards the wire,
and in the other case they would reach away from the wire.
The principle is true in all plant growth that is to hold itself
up by its own climbing. If the location permits of no sun
except in the morning, the wire netting should be on the east
side of the vines; if the only sun is in the late afternoon, the
netting should be on the west. If these simple rules are kept
in mind, the results will be far more satisfactory.
This is a simple illustration, but it shows two things: first, that
there is an influence at work in life; second, that it costs no more
effort to take advantage of power than it does to allow it to run to waste.
All men and women possess personal magnetism; but some magnetism repels
and some attracts. Magnetism is largely relative; what will repel one person
may attract another. The woman who is so ugly that she causes a stampede when
she enters a room, may be an angel to some man as ugly as herself. She may even
inspire poetry on her angelic attributes.
As the absence of heat may be termed
cold, so the diminished degree of personal magnetism may pass for
none
at all; and the idea may go forth that some
persons are totally-devoid of the power. This is not true. For the purpose of
presenting the First Grand Principle we will speak of such persons as
non-magnetic, just as we speak of a reduced degree of heat as cold.
FIRST GRAND PRINCIPLE,
The least magnetic of the
so-called non-magnetic people lose each day more vital electricity
than is necessary to produce the highest degree of personal magnetism.
The proposition is put into simple language and
is made as clear as words can present it. To give it a more exact study, let us
imagine some man or woman who says that personal magnetism is a gift, that it
is the heritage of a chosen few, that others are barred from its power, and
must follow instead of move along in advanced lines in life.
It is supposed that the ability to hypnotize is
a born gift, possessed by a certain few, and developed once in a while from a
dormant condition. This may be true in a limited class of cases; but the
hypnotic power has a number of uses, one of which is to produce sleep, and
another of which is to induce obedience through suggestion. The sleep part of
it can be induced by the act of the subject without the aid of the living
hypnotizer. The latter at his best sets up substitute beliefs in the subject,
always after the sleep state has been entered into. The use of personal
magnetism employs suggestion effectively without putting the subject in the
sleep state. The wide awake individual acts upon the ideas suggested.
As the magnetic power is universal, and differs
only in degree, it cannot be regarded as a born gift. In every instance it is
the result either of accidental development or acquired attainment.
The First Grand Principle states that the least
of the so-called magnetic people lose each day more vital electricity than is
necessary to produce the highest degree of personal
magnetism. This involves the consideration of what is
meant
by vital electricity and its relation to
personal magnetism. The laws that govern the development of these powers are
best stated in the form of propositions.
SECOND GRAND PRINCIPLE
Vital electricity is the basis
of all personal magnetism, but is in no way related to hypnotism.
Many persons are afraid to study these
subjects, believing
that they stand for something that is terrible,
some weird
power that may be associated with
witchcraft. Hypnotism
was undoubtedly the basis of the oldtime
witchery, for it has
always existed in the world, and been misjudged
in every age.
Once it was called the possession of devils,
owing to the fact
that one person might exercise an uncanny
influence over another.
Today, under the guise of
trickery and in the hands of a charlatan, hypnotism
might easily reproduce all the effects
that were seen in the ages when
superstition clothed it with every ill that befell unfortunate people.
But personal magnetism has never been in bad company. It has had no unsavory
reputation; but, on the other hand, its work has been of the nobler
stamp, and its influence has always tended to make the mind sound, the body
whole and the nerves steady.
Of all the thousands of pupils in personal magnetism whom we have met,
there has never been one who retained the least bit of superstition, nor one
who had any fear of ghosts or a belief in them. The brain gets a clear and perfect view of life
free from the muddy hues that tinge the meaner nature.
Its very basis is vitality. Life and power grow with
the
increase of personal magnetism. It helps to uplift the
weak,
wheather that individual be the student of the
power or the one
who is brought under its influence. One magnetic man or
woman can wield a vast and inspiring sway over
hundreds
and thousands of others at one and the same time. Those
who are thus dominated are given some of the
magnetism of
the master power, and the more they are under
such sway the stronger they become in mind and purpose. Just the opposite is
true of the uses of hypnotism.
THIRD GRAND PRINCIPLE
The natural gift of personal magnetism arises
from accidental habits that prevent the constant loss of vital electricity.
This is a negative proposition, as are all
those that relate to the enemies of this power. Nature is always generating
vital electricity in every man and woman. When she ceases to do this, death
ensues. The so-called non-magnetic people are constantly allowing the power to
run away of its own accord. There is no accumulation. The funds placed in the
bank each day are spent with each day's activities, and the individual is as
poor at night as in the morning. When we see some one who is undoubtedly
magnetic, we find a person who saves each day some of the excess of energy
which is generated in the process of living.
Every intelligent reader knows what is meant by
the power of personal magnetism, and there are few who cannot at once detect
the man or woman who possesses this power. The mere entering of the room, the
first steps toward an audience, the first tones of the speaking or singing
voice, the touch of the hand, the glance of the eye, or the impress of the
fingers on the piano, as in the case of the famous Polish player: these tell in
a few seconds the fact that the individual is magnetic. If the gift be natural,
then it has come from accidental habits that prevent the constant loss of vital
electricity. You will see a self-controlled, easy, but at the same time
energetic personality that will attract your attention because of the
presentation of these two conditions in one life.
Later on, as we come to study the positive side
of the power, we will learn that composure, or ease of action and quietude of
method, when there is great energy behind them, are always evidences of
personal magnetism. In
fact, whenever you find this combination you will always
be sure of finding
the quality known as personal magnetism. It may be a
combination that attends a person who is not
credited with
much book learning; but the absence of such
learning is not
by any means proof of ignorance. Wisdom may develop and
grow into a giant, while its possessor may know
very little of
the kind of things that usually belong to
education. This
sort of ignorance is found with some of the
most successful
men of the world. At the same time, it is true that, in proportion
as a man or woman lacks education, its place
must
be taken by personal power, or failure in life
is the certain
consequence.
The greatest men and women in history are those
who couple education with magnetism. Education without this power makes a
person an employe forever; the tool of some one else. This power without
education always pushes the individual to the front. So, if the choice is to be
had between the two, magnetism is the better equipment, as it brings
leadership. The reason is that behind the personality is energy; and,
with the energy, is ease of manner and
self-composure.
Such a combination is found only when there is
magnetism.
It would seem at a glance as if the whole
matter could
be summed up and disposed of under this
double-proposition;
but the sources of the power and the uses of
the faculties
make an elaborate and complicated study.
These remarks are made at this time in order to
encourage
those who think they are handicapped by lack of
previous
education. They
must remember that magnetism
draws
wisdom in proportion as it is properly driven,
just as a fine
steed may be harnessed and made to do many
kinds of valuable
work. The more magnetism you have the more you
will absorb of the practical knowledge of the
world if you are master of this power.
That you may become its master, it is first
necessary to know that certain habits are its enemies and are daily robbing you
of its aid. These we
will discuss in the next chapter.
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