LESSON TWENTY-FIVE - IMMEDIATE PROGRESS
HAVING READ THIS BOOK through very carefully and patiently, the student
is now to learn what is meant by instantaneous personal magnetism. It means the
immediate beginning of its development, the consciousness of possessing it, and
the use of it in every phase of life. We have learned that young people
generate vast quantities of magnetism, and lose it all by the waste of youth;
or the uncontrolled activities that use up all the dynamic energy of carly life
in those who are normal. It is the superabundant vitality running itself
without a controlling and directing engineer.
This is called leakage.
It is not possible to check it in youth, nor is it desirable to do so. .
Nature is taking its course.
But this leaking continues into maturity and keeps up the waste without
check, although the wastage is far less then, or death would come in the form
of fatal nervous prostration. That malady is due to the continued unchecked
loss of magnetism, while neither the patient nor the doctor knows how to stop
it. No physician has ever learned how. Medicines, drugs, pills and electric
treatments have been tried without success to effect a cure. Change of climate,
change of living conditions, change of diet and of habits have been tried, but
all have failed. The victim of nervous prostration or neurasthenia goes on
slowly to the grave. Magnetism is being wasted faster than it is being
generated; this is the whole story.
It has been proved that if all the abnormal leakage of the body can be
stopped, there will occur an immediate accumulation of magnetism. We say of the
boy whose vitality is one hundred percent that it must have vent. If the
grown-up person accumulates magnetism, which is the vitality of that age, it
may seek opportunities for giving itself vent; and these come naturally in the
prolific thinking of the mind, the thirst for real knowledge in place of
sensational news and worthless books, the desire to do something instead of
sitting around aimlessly, and the wish to bring light and sunshine into the
lives of others who are near and dear to us. Unselfishness takes the place of
the narrow conception of duty to those who can be made more appreciative of
interest in them.
The possession of magnetism is generally the difference between success
and failure. A lawyer who believed in himself and who was somewhat magnetic and
knew it, complained that he was not winning his way as he should, and asked
why. "You are too fidgety," was the reply. This means that his
magnetism was being wasted by useless motions of hands and feet, and of the
whole body at times. A fidgety man is unattractive, and all persons are either
attractive, neutral or repellant. There never was and never will be a man or
woman of fidgety habits, who can attract. Here is a double loss. The irritating
motions repel of themselves; and they cause leakage as well; hence such a
person fails to get on in the world. A very brief reminder is all that is
necessary to cure the fault. In the case of the lawyer it made so much
difference that, when he had caught its meaning, he instantly rectified the
trouble, and from that time he became successful. From this account it might
seem that this single fault was all that stood in the way of becoming magnetic.
It is one, at least, of the many faults.
A woman complained that she could not win friends of the right kind, and
was told that she distressed them by using a high pitched voice. This kind of a
voice is merely one that makes use of the upper notes such as are found in the
musical scale, but spoken instead of being sung. In order to know just what is
meant, turn to the Department of the Magnetic Voice and there find the nine
pitches with their quotations. Then repeat the quotations of the four highest
pitches, or the sixth, seventh, eighth and ninth. Imagine a woman carrying on a conversation
lasting minutes or hours
and employing no other pitchesthan one or more of these four upper
ones.
It is well
recognized fact that the higher the pitch of the
speaking voice the greater the irritation on the ear-nerves of
thelisteners.
These ear-nerves communicate with the brain centers and
there transfer the vibrations or waves received by the ear. In
a high pitched speaking voice as well as singing voice, there
are many more vibrations of sound than are found in
the lower
pitches. Thus a
person who avoids the upper pitches and uses
the middle or lower ones, relieves the listener of many vibrations
in each and every second of time; and as a person may engage
in a conversation that lasts for minutes or hours, the accumulated
number of vibrations that are escaped are a great relief to the nerves and
brain of those to whom the remarks are made while the conversation is in
progress. The woman to whom we refer caught the idea in the briefest possible
time, and mended her ways. It required no exercises, no training, no time spent
inbuilding up something
different from what she was naturally.
It was the suggestion that showed her doing the wrong thing, and told
her what was the right thing. Then her cleverness did the rest.
Another woman complained that she did not win friends and seemed to be
repelling those whom she sought. She was told that she talked too fast, and too
much. Much as we do not like to say it, no man or woman who talks too fast or
too much is magnetic. Here again we see the irritating effect of the
accumulated number of voice vibrations that attack the ear-nerves, and through
them the brain itself. Many thousands of these vibrations strike small but
decisive blows against the ear-nerves and the brain, and it is like so many
strokes of a microscopic hammer hitting these sensitive parts. There is a
normal rate of speed that is readily made magnetic; but when you double it, you
double the thousands of hammer strokes that are thrust against the brain of the
listener, and irritation ensues. It requires a genius of the highest order to
speak rapidly and effectively; and such methods must be varied by modulation of
the best quality. Bernhardt could do it, but she had few imitators. Soprano
singers need longer periods of absolute silence than others; and the best of
them refrain from using the voice
for hours and sometimes days before a public appearance. They talk with
pad and pencil.
The woman to whom we referred as talking too fast made an effort to talk
slowly, but could not maintain it. Her husband used to sit within range of her
vision when they were with others, so that he could signal her to reduce her
rate of speed. But a person who must be coached in this way is hopeless as far
as overcoming this fault is concerned.
A minister said that he had no magnetic control over his hearers. We
attended his church one Sunday, and the next day told him that he used a
monotonous pitch. He did not know what that was. He knew that he was not using
too high a pitch, but the idea that, while he kept the pitch down, he made it
monotonous, was new to him. Anything that is monotonous strikes the brain
nerves too often in one way. It concentrates as it were on one spot. The old
incident of driving a man insane by forcing him to sit under a tank of water
placed above him, from which a single drop fell upon one spot on his head, at
the rate of one a second, carries in it the real principle that affects all
faults along this line.
If you are compelled to hear one note all the time, the blow falling on
the nerves of the brain will make you insane. A very small noise at night, if
it is the same all the time without the relief of variation, will so irritate
the brain as to do it injury. A man who plays one tune without change, even if
it is melodious and pleasing for a while, will nearly drive everyone crazy who
is compelled to listen to it. The human brain cannot long endure monotony in
any form. There is more insanity among the women of the farms than among those
of the cities, because they lead a life of dreary monotony.
It is for these reasons that the minister whom we have mentioned was
unmagnetic. He preached along one part of the pitch, even if it were the
pleasing part which is around the middle of the vocal range, known as the magnetic
pitch. Relief from this kind of monotony is secured by the cultivation of
modulation, or the movements of the speaking voice that employ a variety of
pitches for the expression of thought. More than this the really magnetic
speakers and conversationalists employ the movements of modulation in harmony
with the variations of thought.
This is getting too deep for the ordinary
student, and we will
pass it on for a laterlesson. It involves the finest
points in
voice training, and is fascinating as well as magnetic; but it
requires practice, and we have agreed to avoid the practice part
of our method as
much as possible. In the
Department of the
Magnetic Voice we furnish training that will need some practice;and this
will be fully provided in the latter part of this
The point we are making here is that any kind of monotony
irritates the listener, and no persons can be attracted to you if
youirritate them. This
is common sense. The
minister learned
to use his voice
with proper modulation and soon became very
successful in his work.
Another man who was in business complained that he seemed to drive
customers away, and that his efforts to increase patron-age failed at every
turn. We studied him from a vantage place in his store and found that he used
his voice with four faults: the pitch was too high, the tones were unvaried and
monotonous, the rate of speed much too fast, and he closed the upper part of
his throat in talking, making a guttural barking sound as he spoke.
This brings us to one of the most unmagnetic faults of the human voice;
a fault that repels instead of attracting. When the voice is developed by the
drifting methods of Nature, it runs to some kind of faults, just as a beautiful
garden, left to the management of Nature, will destroy itself by weeds. Many
thoughtless people say they prefer to remain natural than to cultivate good
habits; and their argument seems unanswerable, which is: "Nature knows
what she is about, and the only proper way of living is to let her do as she
pleases."—But when this argument is applied to the raising of flowers,
fruits or foods, it shows Nature as an unruly impulse in all departments of
living things and living organisms. This unruly impulse when controlling the
human voice, brings into it as many faults as it brings into the garden which
is left to itself.
There is no vocal fault so common and so almost universal as that of
closing the upper part of the throat in speaking or in singing. The skilled
teacher of the coming genius of opera, attacks this fault first. One of the
methods is to place the end of the handle of a teaspoon on the back of the
tongue, and
bo force down the roots of the tongue, with the results that the throat
will open in its upper part. Another method that is employed by teachers is to
direct that the student swallow, and note the position of the larynx, or Adam's
apple, in the throat; and in tone production keep that organ down where it went
in the act of swallowing. This last process may be misleading, for the larynx
tries to rise just before it performs the real act of swallowing, and it is the
latter part of this act that is helpful in getting the throat open. So another
plan was adopted, and it proved a better one. It was that of imitating the
gape; or trying to open the back of the mouth and upper throat as a person does
who gapes. This succeeded. When once it can be done voluntarily, which should
require but a few minutes of practice, it can be done always at will.
The closed upper throat is an effectual barrier to a decent singing voice;
but it is a common fault in speaking.
It produces voices that irritate and repel in every department of life,
and that therefore are non-magnetic.
In a state of Nature this closed position means dislike, and under more
pressure it means hatred. It can be seen at once that such a mood is
unattractive; and although it cannot be translated by a non-expert, it is felt
instinctively as a repellant tone position. Among beasts it produces the hiss
of the cat and all cat-like animals; and the warning hatred of other life below
the human species. The growl of the dog has its origin in the same position.
Hence to hear it in the voice of man or woman, is to feel as if there were more
of the growl and threat there than of attractiveness. The health of the throat,
also, becomes involved in this closed position, for it rasps the membrane which
is very delicate at that place.
This does not imply that every repellant voice is rasping. Any tone that
is produced with the upper throat closed is disagreeable, even if it is merely
a closed tone. The natural impulse that causes the closing of the throat is
born of a disagreeable temperament, and this influence is always repellant.
The cure of this trouble is to be found in correcting the throat
position in the manner we have described. It is a very quick proceeding if our
instructions are followed as given. Just as soon as the upper throat is opened,
it should be held flexibly open all the time you are talking; and this applies
also to public
speaking; and is absolutely necessary in singing. There can be no real singing voice until this
position is acquired and made an easy habit.
As soon as you master this simple matter, you will notice
thatthe character of your voice will at once undergo a change
that is revolutionary in its nature. Every harsh and repellant
notewill disappear.
Better volume, which before was wholly
impossible, will follow.
Then there will be purity, attractiveneseand winning qualities to reward your
brief effort at mending
a fault that stands between you and success in your influence
over others. The
closed throat fault reacts upon every person
who possesses it, and it is present in ninety percent of all voices.
Very few persons are free from it. Hence we seek to eliminate
it at once.
The troubles that are cited in this lesson are not all by any means.
There are many others, and they must be given consideration as we proceed. Like
the garden that is left to the drifting impulses of Nature, humanity collects
multitudes of weeds, and also like the garden which is overrun with weeds when
left to Nature, humanity needs a bit of cultivating.
Human intercourse is so constituted that the means of communication
between one person and another are confined ordinarily to the use of the eyes
and of the voice. These furnish the channels for the exercise of the power of
personal magnetism.
Incidental to them are the uses of touch and of thought. Luther Burbank
by placing one hand on the chest of a person, and the other hand on the back,
was able to throw so powerful a current of magnetism into a person that cures
were effected that defied all treatments of science or medicine. This is the
use of touch.
Ideas are also tremendously magnetic.
But in the wear and tear of life, in the multitudinous activities of the
day, the voice becomes the agency of magnetic control in ninety percent of all
communications; and so simple an idea as to allow it to develop itself into an
instrument of wondrous beauty by merely adopting the habit of maintaining the
open throat in order to give forth pure tones, and of acquiring a pleasing and
harmonious modulation in speech, is charged with the potency of a complete
revolution of the life-habits of an individual, and this change may begin in a
single day.
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